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31 Days {Day 28} – My Fault

31 Days {Day 28} – My Fault

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Well, this morning kind of sucked.

A couple weeks ago I noticed Noah had what I was pretty sure was a cavity in one of his molars. It had shown up really suddenly, and it totally took me by surprise!

I had his teeth cleaned a couple months ago and it seemed like things were fine.

Turns out…they weren’t fine.

31 Days {Day 27} – Lesson in the Driveway

31 Days {Day 27} – Lesson in the Driveway

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You guys, guess what? It’s almost the end of October!

Know how I know? I have pretty much run out of things to talk about.

All day long, I couldn’t think of one single thing that I might say that you might care about.

Blah.

I sat here staring at the computer screen for….quite a while, and I just kept typing a sentence and deleting it. Such is writing sometimes.

So here I sat.

I could have told you about my day, or what we’ve been up to lately, but no one wants to read my diary – waste of time.

I decided that I will just tell you about the only thing I’ve learned today. I learned it from Aidan, and it’s the only reason I’m writing anything at all today.

31 Days {Day 26} – School Games

31 Days {Day 26} – School Games

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I spent this afternoon hanging out after kindergarten getting all of the games ready for their Halloween parties this week!

Wait until you see all of the cute little games we have!

31 Days {Day 25} – How Great Thou Art

31 Days {Day 25} – How Great Thou Art

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Today is Sunday.

It’s the day we’re supposed to rest.

In this time of craziness, and all of my stress, I’ve just been enjoying my day being back home with my boys. We spent the night at my in-laws’ house and woke up and just relaxed all day.

I’ve had this song stuck in my head all day. It’s been so wonderful to just reflect on how good God is today. Because He is so good. Even in the stress, the chaos, and the hard parts of life.

31 Days {Day 24} – Empathetic Spartans

31 Days {Day 24} – Empathetic Spartans

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Welcome back to the 31 Days of Mary, Martha, & Sparta! If you missed it, here is the link to the last post!

I didn’t post yesterday, and I’m so excited to tell you guys why next week! Stay tuned…

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The thing that I want the most for my kids is for them to love Jesus. Like chase-after-Him-with-total-abandon love. Jesus-is-oozing-out-of-me love. Share-His-love-with-everyone love.

One of the biggest things that I hope comes out of loving Jesus for them is a strong sense of empathy.

I once heard someone describe empathy as “fellow feeling.” Think about that for a quick second. Fellow feeling – “I feel it, too.”

  • “You’re frustrated? Yeah, I’d be frustrated, too.”
  • “I can see that you feel left out. I understand – I’ve felt that way.”
  • “My heart hurts for you that you’ve been so wronged.”

Empathy is a gateway character emotion. If you can feel empathy for someone, so many other things fall right into place – love, mercy and grace, patience, selflessness, advocacy and intervention.

31 Days {Day 22} – Root System

31 Days {Day 22} – Root System

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We’re in the middle of fixing some things in our front yard. We had some very large, very MESSY trees that flanked our driveway. They were pretty from afar but such a hassle to live with.

When the landscapers came to take down the trees, it started okay. They cut down all the branches pretty quickly and things seemed to be going smoothly.

Until they had to take out the stumps.

31 Days {Day 21} – Stressed Out

31 Days {Day 21} – Stressed Out

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Do you ever have those days where you think things are kind of going okay, and then all of a sudden stress hits you like a ton of bricks?

That is me today. I have had so much stuff to do, but I totally felt like I had a handle on it.

I’ve been all, “Look at all of the things I’ve crossed off. I’m gonna be totally fine. Look at me go! I got this.”

And then life is all, “Yeah…you so don’t got this. You forgot to unfold the list – there’s a whole other side! Suckaaaa!!”

*Cut to me hyperventilating*

31 Days {Day 20} – You Are Worthy

31 Days {Day 20} – You Are Worthy

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When we were in Dallas a couple weeks ago, Ty and I went to a movie at this cute little eclectic movie theater.

After the movie, as is my custom, I had to go to the bathroom (Seriously. Every. Time. Curse their gallon-sized cups!).

Anyway, when I walked into the stall, I saw that there were messages written all over the walls. People had been adding to the wall for quite some time.

There were dozens and dozens of encouraging, positive messages. “You’re beautiful.” “You’re perfect just the way you are!” It was so great to see – and in such a random place! I was surprised that not even one woman had been rude and added a dumb, negative comment.

There was one message that stood out to me, though. It even stood alone on its own wall like everyone knew it needed a little extra space to be seen.

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You are worthy of your love.

Think about that for a second. Not “You are worthy of love,” as in the love of others.

You are worthy of YOUR love.

We, as women, wives, moms love everyone else with all of our hearts – to the point of exhaustion. Isn’t it time that we give a little of that to ourselves?

Take some time to say some kind things about you to yourself for a change. Do something to take care of yourself.

I don’t have much more to add to that today. Just that.

You are worthy of your love.

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I don’t think that I have ever asked you all to share a post for me. But today I am. Please send this post to some people who need to be reminded of their worthiness today. You can do that with the share buttons at the bottom of the post. Thank you for spreading love with me! 

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cover photo: Abhi